BIG news!

My sorority is celebrating "Big Appreciation Week" this week, I think because they just felt like it.

Okay by me, but all of my littles have left school - two transfers and an alum! Of course, I got some sweet notes, but I didn't feel like I was left out or anything, even if I hadn't.

But there is BIGger news.... I love my sorority, it's true. Two years of Panhellenic Exec board really solidified what I thought was true. Phi Mu is where I truly belonged. I firmly believe in the values it holds and I am so proud to be involved in an organization like it.

But, I passed up the opportunity this winter to apply for a Chapter Consultant position. After the application closed, I immediately regretted it.

But guess what? The application re-opened yesterday!

I just know this is a sign from Mary, Mary and Martha... so of course I started the application!

Thanks you guys!

Cross your quatrefoils for me... (or just your fingers!)

Have you ever gotten a second chance? Share with me in the comments below!

Stay true to yourself,
Alyson

Thesis Update: I'm Dying

Man oh man, this thesis will be the death of me!

My sorority house flooded this weekend after some roof repairs fell through. I gave myself a break Thursday from homework, which carried into Friday, and early Saturday morning the house flooded during a rainstorm.

Luckily, we had another dorm to go to, and student services came immediately. A disaster relief team was called to handle the emergency as well. I was definitely not happy about moving out 5 weeks early, but that's another story for another day.

Saturday morning, we had our annual egg hunt, so while packing up the house, we also hosted a philanthropy event! Talk about stressful! Then, that night was our annual formal. Sunday we all finally got around to unpacking our things... and we're still packing up our common rooms.

Geez Louise! So much going on. I ended up loosing 4 days of studying and work in all. Which is not what I wanted. Plus the weather has been FREEZING and we've seen snow flurries for two days. Morale is low.

Luckily, I got an extension for my first draft of my thesis, and I'm powering through the week to get all of my assignments done. I turned in an article this morning, a PR project is in its final stages, a podcast is in its beginnings and due in two days, I have three other articles due Thursday, and of course, my thesis draft!

There's a lesson here folks... take advantage of the time you have! You need time to yourself, true, but be careful! Time can slip away from you quite easily, and you can't plan for disasters and emergencies.

Are you near the end of any big projects? Share with me in the comments below!

Stay true to yourself,
Alyson

Pride

It's important to be proud of yourself. Your accomplishments are things to be proud of - you worked hard for those! You earned the right to be proud.

Being proud isn't always bragging, and it's not always as obvious as a pack of lions strutting about.

I've come to realize that I am a very proud person, and I'm not sure I like it. Sometimes, my pride can turn from achievement into elitism.

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I've been the editor for my campus's online student newspaper for about a year now. I was chosen for the position, which made me proud that my hard work paid off.

However, we had to rebuild the site. I have taken plenty of web building classes, but I was rusty. I built up the bare bones and kind of just left them.

Having a site that was okay but not amazing was something I was not proud of. I think it showed too, and I think that's why I had difficulty getting other students to write quality work.

When you think of something as a permanent work in progress, you'll never accomplish your final goal. And no one likes to look incompetent by asking for help.

But the truth is, I was a little rusty. I can manage a site no problem, but it's been a while since I really dove in a worked on it.

After I had heard a local newspaper had checked our website and thought it was mediocre, I was upset. I had tried to get an internship at that newspaper.... did my lack of work and being too proud to ask for help ruin my chances for that internship?

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So I finally gave up the goat. I needed help on this site. I emailed the school's web coordinator and my advisor. I refuse to graduate and leave the site "just okay."

So what's the moral of this story? It's okay to be proud, but there is always room to learn.

Have you ever had to come to terms with being too proud? Share with me in the comments below.

Stay true to yourself,
Alyson

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Hopefully you'll be lucky today (and don't get pinched!)

Shamrock in style!

Things have been so crazy lately! Sorry for the lack of posts. I'll be posting an update sometime this week!

Stay true to yourself, 

Alyson